Respect is the natural consequence of self-respect. The practical method to gain others' respect is to know one's own worth and to have regard for the worth of others. Self-respect is based on the understanding that the self is a unique spiritual being, a soul with innate value, qualities and rights. Respect comes from recognizing this in each individual. Giving respect will lead to receiving respect.

When people forget their innate worth they begin to look at and then depend on material factors as a source of worthiness, demanding respect on the basis of external criteria such as social status, nationality, physique, wealth or popularity. However, the more a feeling of worthiness is derived from or seen as depending on something external, the stronger will become the desire for recognition from others or to enhance those external circumstances. And the more there is that desire, the more one feels at the mercy of others, even a victim of others, or dependent on material symbols, and thereby looses both self-respect and respect from others.

If there is truly self-respect, our words and actions will contribute to the emotional and spiritual development and well-being of the self and those around us. The balance of humility and self-respect results in selfless concern for and service of others and protects from arrogance and narrow-mindedness. Arrogance violates the self-respect of the one who has it as much as it disrespects others. To the extent that there is humility in respecting the self - and the wisdom to be just and fair to others - there will also be success in valuing individuality and appreciating diversity and a generosity of spirit that gives respect to all.